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Thursday, August 25, 2011

Break your Fear's & Live your Life!!






                                                      During childhood days we often hear words like  " Dear don't do that"... "Don't touch that thing"...."Don't  go there".....likewise the list goes on.Finally that ends up in ultimate fear in doing things and also lost our curiosity in knowing the facts behind things.This mainly happens because we are not aware of why they are mentioning such statements. Sometimes we start questioning them with a queering "Why",but that often gets a threatening answer "Its just like that".Gradually our propensity to question winds up locking our capability to investigate the things that are unknown to us.This will eventually follow us through out our life making us to believe things blindly without searching for the its realism.
                                                    Fear starts with a stressful stimulus,that gives signals to brain there by performing a series of fission reactions that finally ends up in releasing chemicals that causes increase in heart rates,energizing the muscles etc.Hence we can say that it's the brain that triggers the respond to the things we fear.During our childhood days itself we are giving suggestions to our brain to code like "I fear this " "I fear that "  ....like that we feed a set of illogical statements to our brain.Our brain have an enormous capability to respond to the statements through a set of neural networks that are being connected with respect to our understanding or knowledge.

                                                   If we start fearing something then it makes imbalance to our body rupturing our physical as well as mental strength.So start doing the things we fear.Many of our likes we quit in life due to the fear right?? However small it may be start doing such things with more clear vision.Ultimately you feel proud of achieving something in life.

                                                    

Monday, August 15, 2011

When I feels to write.....



When my thoughts get stuck to a single source for a long time,capturing my eyes or ears or mind makes me burst out through letter's that finally takes me to the ultimate pleasure of expressing myself through word power.It's a wonderful feel that starts like a narrow stream,having some hidden blockage in between and then flushing out to the ocean of fulfillment and self realization.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Talking makes women Happy???

                                                   
                                                                    Many times in life I heard,men complaining about the nonstop talking habit of  women.I often feels so comfortable to be with a gang of my best friends among girls,because the topics burst out instantaneously one after other  even with out having much connections among that.But at the end of the day,I feels so much relaxed and energetic.Also we express our self fully in front of them with damn stupid comments narrating each and every incidents happened in life(many times have a stain of bit exaggeration at times),that eventually releases the stress and makes us cool.That is the power of communication as a stress relieving attribute for women.

                                                                 Today afternoon I had a wonderful chat with my friends while we had our lunch.But now I would like to visualize that from a third persons angle who listens the entire conversation.

"There were 3 girls sharing the lunch ,which consist of two lunch boxes  filled with rice and side dishes of various colors.They started murmuring between them about the various dishes in the lunch box and open it up.They sat in circle and started sharing the lunch.Suddenly one among them burst out with the happenings of her home....narrating the mannerisms of the elder one in her family....her reactions for that including her comments....then slowly leaps down to the behavior of the youngest boy in her family who's her sister in laws son.After having each comments she burst out with laugh ,inquiring others "why it's so?".Then one among them described about various aspects she found in that and makes them convince with her little knowledge about why things are happening like that.Other two listens to her eagerly and started to shark their heads agreeing to her words.In between several emotions flourishes in their faces,starting with the tinge of anxiety.....then changes to ultimate curiosity..then again to silent acceptance...then  finally  they burst out laughing thinking about the stupidity of the happenings......Then they were about to leave to place with their smiling faces,but only then I note their lunch boxes were empty.I don't know when they finishes that because the various wavy expressions that crawls through their faces caught my mind taking myself out of this world"

                                                   The above recital can reveal a wonderful fact that women doesn't need a particular subject to talk about....they just wanna open up...sticking to various topics in their life.......moving ahead to new themes.....finally ending up without even having a conclusion.That is the miracle of stress relieving power in every women' s  life that makes them feel more joyful.So  don't keep your worries in heart...burst it off with the person you care.......then you can find the peace of joy in your life.



Lekhna!!!