Moving out of the comfort zone!!!

                                                                 

                                        After a long break ,I'm back to my favorite world of  thoughts.For a month I'm away from here as things changes so rapidly...can say the stupid excuse of having hectic exam schedules for my hibernation ...but is that true? Obviously no....I'm not at all studying for the whole day..without skipping even an hour...but.. knowingly or unknowingly I keep myself away from here giving priorities to so many other stuffs. But an advantage for that is now my mind is full of thoughts that are about to burst out......so that I can feel the warmth of expressing myself in its mellowness.

                                    Now I feels to share my thoughts about our state of mind as things moves away from our defined comfort zone.Before that lemme thank all those personalities....things....situations....talks....snaps.... etc that leads me to give explanation to the situation that I defined before.

                                    Everyone of us have a comfort zone we define by default due to the situations we lived or with the things we see/feels while we moves in the journey of life.There we set a boundary separating our self from the worldly life.But many times we need to get out of that...breaking all the boundaries....as we face new situations...or ..as we moves to new relationships...etc etc etc.We all have a state of inertia to get out of that and move on with the changing states.That eventually needs an impulse of particular threshold to keep our self moving with the changing state,that may comes out of passion.....love.....hope.....understanding.....empathy....trust...or even self realization.While facing such a challenge we can either change our self to the situation or can restrict our self in the state of comfortableness.But that merely depends on the threshold we are having to adapt to the change that comes out of several factors.

                                  One thing that we can do at such situations is to expand our state of comfort zone to new horizons ,which one can give justification to their inner voice for such a change.

Lekhna!!!

                                  

Listen & Learn

                                               
                                                                    Before I  express my thoughts I would like to thank many people who played a wonderful role in triggering my neural networks to initiate the idea of scribbling this blog post.I'm extremely great full to them and also to the person who created this snap as a part of his blog writing.

                                                                    There a many people who likes to talk, some others want to listen .But in life many times I feels the more we listen to others, we can able to generate more thoughts and can able to understand things more effectively.There are people who have real life experience may be apart from the area of our interest.Many times listening to them may cost us certain time value,but it's worth full for us in some times or the other.Today I  met with a similar situation, lemme narrate that in short- Day before yesterday I happened to listen a situation about the behavior of client with respect to a construction project(An area where I'm least bothered about),but today my tutor talked about the challenges in IT sector my thoughts get connected to the previously heard situation and hence can able to understand the situation more precisely.

                                                               Listening to people who narrates their life experience,the ways they handle the situations ,problems relating jobs etc can able to add up to our thoughts if we can able to connect that with the similar situations.So start connecting thoughts and build new ideas of your own that makes you to learn things with more clarity.

Happiness depends upon Ourself!!!

The theme that makes me to write this weekend mail is the journey I had today with my sister &  friends who are so close to my heart.I'm also thankful to the people we met in between the journey, the striker's , innocent people's in the village,the boys who bathed in village stream etc etc etc.I would say it's one of the most wonderful time I had in my life.Thank you all for being a part of this beautiful day in my life.


In life we often meet people of different attitudes towards same thing happening in their life.We like some of them and some we don't.Today I felt the real meaning of taking risk in life,only then we can able to enjoy certain beautiful things in life,else its obvious that you gonna miss a wonderful side of this world - I would say the most charming part.Take small risk in life and enjoy its simple but enthralling outcome Also there is a chance of tasting the bitter part of risk taking but that purely depends on how we take things and by preparing yourself in advance.We often feels to enjoy so many things - may be a long drive, a cup of coffee with your dear ones ,teasing your friends ,a walk ,going to places you wish ,finding the solution for even a mathematical problem...like that our wish list goes on.Try to update the list frequently ,find the things you enjoy however small it may be.....do it........enjoy and keep yourself happy.If you are happy the things around will also get a positive vibration adding background to our joyful moments.

People have several ways to find the happiness of life,but ensure yourself that you don't miss any small happiness you can able to achieve while you are in search for the larger one's.Conquer the happiness in each step while you move ahead with your goals.


Lekhna!!!

Value of money!!!

Before I opine my views about money I'm thanking several persons who makes me think about the value of money.Thank you all...Thank you so much!!!Before going on with my writing lemme clarify one thing ,my intention is neither to blame anyone who project about their money nor to complain about the miserable social conditions prevailing in our country.(Also this is not for persons who earned money illegally)

                                                               In life we often put across  persons coming from different backgrounds in terms of money values.Many bug out themselves in terms of money or things they own which in turn can be measured in terms of money values.I think it's the way they tried to keep themselves happy.I don't find anything wrong in that because it's what they gained in life with their efforts.Each drop of blood they spare to gain that happiness,gets flushed out when they narrates their success stories.So grasp the soul in their words rather than complaining about the pride in their words.Many people cant able to express themselves properly due to the superbia they acquired by gaining pleasure and worldly wealth.It's better to forgive them for their fault for finding the ultimate soul of being successful measured in terms of gaining money.

                                                              In spite of all these things one should ensure that the pleasure they getting while expressing their wealth shouldn't be to hurt others intentionally.If you are offering things or help to someone, do it with your full heart unless it's better not to go for it by hurting yourself.Because their is a tinge of effort that coalesce with every coin a person gain in life that gives the value addition to the money they own.Coins that infiltrate through your hands have several stories of pain & handwork to recite.When you pass this to the next ensure yourself ,this is also for something worth full you are transiting to next with your complete satisfaction.Make it's as a practice to use money wisely,keep in mind about the worth of the coin before passing to the next.

One thing that you do/think when you face death ahead?

                                                                Today accidentally I saw a Hindi movie released recently that caught my mind to think about the situation I mentioned in the "Title" column.Lets rephrase it as "What is the thing that comes to your mind or the thing that you need to do when you are alive for the next minute & the death is so close to you??".I don't know whether anyone is there without having any wishes.....some have deep rooted dreams to fulfill....some want to be with the person they love....some want to search for things they given up for the sake of others.....some want to tell something to special persons in their life.......some even want to go to places they like.....some others like to have the food they wishes.....likewise this list goes on.

                                                                Yeah...In life actually are we living for our self? Can you ever spend time for yourself...asking what is the thing you need.Many of them face the life as it's comes.......some gets satisfied with the things they have......some search for it's abundance....some live for others...But at the end of the day when we think what we gained in this life......some will get an answer like "I lived for my family' But is that worth enough to satisfy your mind when you see your death ahead.I don't know.But for me I enjoy and live each and every second of my life yet.......so if the death is ahead then also can able to hug it with a warm welcome.

                                                              Death is an ineluctable part of every one's life.We don't know when that gonna happens...may be that happens the very next second.So each moment is precious that can add colors to the great portrait of life.So live your life without holding over your wishes.Enjoy the things around...feel the world.....gets inspired with that.....share your feelings......make yourself feel free.......and keep your smile in tact to face the world.


Lekhna....

Break your Fear's & Live your Life!!

                                                      During childhood days we often hear words like  " Dear don't do that"... "Don't touch that thing"...."Don't  go there".....likewise the list goes on.Finally that ends up in ultimate fear in doing things and also lost our curiosity in knowing the facts behind things.This mainly happens because we are not aware of why they are mentioning such statements. Sometimes we start questioning them with a queering "Why",but that often gets a threatening answer "Its just like that".Gradually our propensity to question winds up locking our capability to investigate the things that are unknown to us.This will eventually follow us through out our life making us to believe things blindly without searching for the its realism.
                                                    Fear starts with a stressful stimulus,that gives signals to brain there by performing a series of fission reactions that finally ends up in releasing chemicals that causes increase in heart rates,energizing the muscles etc.Hence we can say that it's the brain that triggers the respond to the things we fear.During our childhood days itself we are giving suggestions to our brain to code like "I fear this " "I fear that "  ....like that we feed a set of illogical statements to our brain.Our brain have an enormous capability to respond to the statements through a set of neural networks that are being connected with respect to our understanding or knowledge.

                                                   If we start fearing something then it makes imbalance to our body rupturing our physical as well as mental strength.So start doing the things we fear.Many of our likes we quit in life due to the fear right?? However small it may be start doing such things with more clear vision.Ultimately you feel proud of achieving something in life.

                                                    

When I feels to write.....

When my thoughts get stuck to a single source for a long time,capturing my eyes or ears or mind makes me burst out through letter's that finally takes me to the ultimate pleasure of expressing myself through word power.It's a wonderful feel that starts like a narrow stream,having some hidden blockage in between and then flushing out to the ocean of fulfillment and self realization.

Talking makes women Happy???

                                                   
                                                                    Many times in life I heard,men complaining about the nonstop talking habit of  women.I often feels so comfortable to be with a gang of my best friends among girls,because the topics burst out instantaneously one after other  even with out having much connections among that.But at the end of the day,I feels so much relaxed and energetic.Also we express our self fully in front of them with damn stupid comments narrating each and every incidents happened in life(many times have a stain of bit exaggeration at times),that eventually releases the stress and makes us cool.That is the power of communication as a stress relieving attribute for women.

                                                                 Today afternoon I had a wonderful chat with my friends while we had our lunch.But now I would like to visualize that from a third persons angle who listens the entire conversation.

"There were 3 girls sharing the lunch ,which consist of two lunch boxes  filled with rice and side dishes of various colors.They started murmuring between them about the various dishes in the lunch box and open it up.They sat in circle and started sharing the lunch.Suddenly one among them burst out with the happenings of her home....narrating the mannerisms of the elder one in her family....her reactions for that including her comments....then slowly leaps down to the behavior of the youngest boy in her family who's her sister in laws son.After having each comments she burst out with laugh ,inquiring others "why it's so?".Then one among them described about various aspects she found in that and makes them convince with her little knowledge about why things are happening like that.Other two listens to her eagerly and started to shark their heads agreeing to her words.In between several emotions flourishes in their faces,starting with the tinge of anxiety.....then changes to ultimate curiosity..then again to silent acceptance...then  finally  they burst out laughing thinking about the stupidity of the happenings......Then they were about to leave to place with their smiling faces,but only then I note their lunch boxes were empty.I don't know when they finishes that because the various wavy expressions that crawls through their faces caught my mind taking myself out of this world"

                                                   The above recital can reveal a wonderful fact that women doesn't need a particular subject to talk about....they just wanna open up...sticking to various topics in their life.......moving ahead to new themes.....finally ending up without even having a conclusion.That is the miracle of stress relieving power in every women' s  life that makes them feel more joyful.So  don't keep your worries in heart...burst it off with the person you care.......then you can find the peace of joy in your life.

Lekhna!!!

As things seems weird!!!

                                           
                                                                    Journey of life feels so weird at times as it swings like staggering waves.As we see it seems to be so impressive at times but to the core their may have a chance to find its bitterness.As life moves ahead we finds several heads of our choice some knowingly and some unknowingly .They follows us to some part of our journey adding colors to enhance the flow.Even though some leaves apart from us,the time we spend with them are counted with the very small things happiness they gives us.That makes the relationship sweeter.......

                                                                Many times people tries to impress us with pricey things,that get remembered until we own that.After that slowly and slowly that starts to deteriorate away from our life,searching for the raw pricey things-that makes me feel things so wired.As in the case of relationships I value most the people who values me rather than showing too much attitudes.May be it's too hard to find that kinda persons in life,but once if we finds then never ever try to loose them.

                                                               Life is not counted by the gifts we get,its with the moments we can make others happy.So try to be happy and make other's happy.

World of symmetry!!!

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                                                                      If we think what is the most beautiful thing in the universe;our brain search for all sort of things that we came across in our life.Even then we cant identify a single one from that,so we start to compare one sorted thing from the other and finally we pick one out of that randomly.As this phenomenon repeats often,my thoughts accidentally get blocked for a while and diverge to another question "What makes the things beautiful?"Again my Gogol brain started its searching phenomenon and keeps a list of search results in front of me comprising height,weight,color  etc etc etc.As usual I thought this too  gonna ends up in a random pick.But this time astonishingly my trembling nerves picked up from an unknown source and makes ma lips to murmur "Its symmetry".

                                                                    The world of symmetry then started to unwind in my thoughts,showing its miracle of ultimate beauty.Sorting out each and everything from my beauty list I started  verifying whether their have been any symmetry that makes it beautiful. Taking my breath away I found that unknown Law of Universe,Yes it's the symmetry that makes every thing in this universe beautiful.I'm thanking God for opening up the wonderful benchmark of his creativity - The symmetry.


Lekhna!!!

Sheered roads ahead!!!

                                     The floating symphony of our life's travel many times get disturbed with the sheer turns in the track ahead.Some times our mind get narrowed like hair pin drives and some times it gets widen up like expanding universe. Why its fluctuating drastically without having an invariant melody?The laws governing the human mind is incredible as its changes from one man to another;an unique imprint that spell out the wonderful creation of God-The Humans


                                   We often get reacted in different ways to a same situations if it happens to our self and to others.We feels the philosophy of our life as hard to follow at times.But remember its not always true ,as India is a country having so many great personalities who follows their philosophy of life with frozen courage. But do they ever feels their philosophy's are hard to follow in life?
A question placing in front of that rational souls because only they are powerful enough to answer.


                                   It needs enormous  power to get addicted to our philosophy's,if ones that happens then every thing we get is in the track of our thoughts.Even though that have so many hurdles to leap ahead,once we reach their then felicity flushed through our minds that leads to the path of self realization -the ultimate destination of life.


Lekhna!!!

Listen yourself........

                              

                                                        Days ray out with a mixture of  emotions in every one's heart that takes us to the very next step ahead.When we looks to every glowing eyes ,all that searches for some purpose that is awaiting them.But the only eyes that I cant see that is my own ,where the heart speaks to me consciously sometimes without that.But many times the worldly things effects our life drastically,that compels us to obviate from the passionate heart sounds.Eventually we move ahead  ignoring our self ,listening to the unwanted noise dwelling in this world that makes each one of our life in ultimate dryness.

                                                        Accidentally or meanly many times we are the victims of this ignorance that takes the worldly noise to dominate over our powerful heart sounds.Once it happens then slowly and slowly that phenomenon repeats making us to ignore our self, that builds up the fear to do what we likes,  giving rise to multiple thoughts ,taking our-self to the world of ultimate confusion.Gradually we get used to that and feels life as a hectic journey grabbing up the things the noise utter. The timely pleasure may sometimes fascinate us for a while.But after this reckless drive we get tired off and tries to move to the world of eternal peace.There the only companion is the grumbling sounds of our-self that have nothing to do then.

                                                       Yes!!! this world is becoming too much noisy that is capable to detracts our-self from our-self.Never ever let that happens if you are passionate about your life,so start listening to yourself and follow your heart...........

Lekhna